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Tanta & T.P.'s First Cup of Coffee

by Tom Kane

[As told by Tanta to her great-nephew Tom Kane in 1998. T.P. was interred at Arlington National Cemetery in 1987.]

It's World War II and Thomas P. McCartin [Tanta calls him Tommy; I know him as my great-uncle T.P.] of Merrick, Long Island, New York, is on one-day leave from the Army. He goes to the department store in Manhattan where Eileen Sheehan (Tanta) works.

Eileen works on the lingerie or makeup floor [Tanta couldn't remember]. No men are allowed on the floor, so Tommy stops a girl going up in the elevator and asks her if she knows Eileen Sheehan. She says she does, so he asks her to relay a message to Eileen:

"Tell her that Tom McCartin is on a one-day leave from the army before he gets shipped off to Europe and is downstairs to see her -- and will she come down?"

Upstairs, the girl tells Eileen, who hasn’t seen Tommy since high school. She has no idea what he wants. Half-joking, she thinks aloud that he might be looking to borrow money. Nevertheless, he’s on one-day leave, so she tells her boss and goes downstairs.

She spots him as she gets off the elevator. He’s "devastatingly handsome" in his uniform, and his blue eyes and spit-shined shoes glint and gleam in the fluorescent light. He tells her he has one more day in the U.S. – will she have a cup of coffee with him? She agrees and they go to a shop around the corner.

Over coffee, Tommy tells her he had one day to do whatever he wanted, and he used it to come to see her. He’s going to war in the morning and he may never come back, but he loves her and wants to marry her if he does. She thinks he’s crazy and scared of dying, but she’s touched and tells him to call her when he gets home from Europe.

T.P. in the Korean War
Tanta & T.P. (and Mishka) in Alexandria, VA, Aug. 1983

  



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"Yeah; that's an unbelievable story. I love that one."

by Michael Kane 

"Tanta was the model for Elizabeth Arden's eye makeup. She had gorgeous eyes and she had an absolutely beautiful smile with the most perfect teeth. By the 1930's, there were only three American companies recognized globally -- Singer Sewing Machines, Coca-Cola, and Elizabeth Arden, so it was a big deal that Tanta modeled the makeup in New York City. She was a true beauty and as funny as could be. They were a great couple. T.P. had dated one of her friends, so I think that's one of the reasons she was surprised to see him."

by Beth Kane 

"Tom, this is consistent with what I know about how TP proposed to Auntie. I do think she was working as a salesperson at the time, selling Elizabeth Arden make-up. I do remember that she said she thought he was going to ask her to loan him some money! She also told me that Grandpa Sheehan was quite wary about him. When he came to the house to pick her up for dates, Uncle tommy had a copy of Mein Kampf (SP?) Grandpa thought he was a communist."

by Eileen Montano 

"That is such a sweet story. Once he got back, how long did it take them to get married?"

by gigi grenadine 

"Great story Tom, I do miss Auntie a lot. I didn't get to see much of T.P. but I do remember him being a good man."

by Bill Montano 

"I do remember this story also, especially the part about the money! I also remember how he used to call Auntie (aka Tanta) "Missy" as a nick name. My best memory of uncle Tommy is when he took us to Jones' beach once when we came east to visit one fall and we ran around on the sand and he brought a kite that we flew together. Somewhere there are great photos of this, and that may be why it stands out in my mind."

by Laurie Montano 

"Tanta and T.P. now rest together at Arlington National Cemetary. Tanta passed away quite suddenly in March 2002. Reading this story never fails to bring tears to my eyes. Theirs was a real love story."

by Beth Kane